Parse needs to allow autoSelectFamily config for the MongoDB Driver

[pocketcolin]

Issue Description

Node Mongo driver package released a breaking change in a minor release (v6.9) that switched the autoSelectFamily default value to true while it was previously false. Parse 7 updated the Mongo version from 4 to 6.12 so people upgrading to Parse 7 are going to be impacted by this change and without the databaseOption they'll be stuck with a new configuration.

There's a discussion about this here: https://www.mongodb.com/community/forums/t/i-keep-getting-error-when-i-try-connecting-node-to-mongodb/243422/22?page=2

Steps to reproduce

1. Try to set autoSelectFamily: true in databaseOptions and run server

Actual Outcome

Not able to set autoSelectFamily, get error:

error: Invalid Option Keys Found: databaseOptions.autoSelectFamily

Expected Outcome

No error, Parse uses the database option.

Environment

Server

• Parse Server version: 7 or 8

Database

• System (MongoDB or Postgres): MongoDB

[parse-github-assistant]

Thanks for opening this issue!

[parseplatformorg]

🎉 This change has been released in version 8.0.0-alpha.8