[GraphBolt][io_uring] Make OnDiskNpyArray threadsafe.

[mfbalin]

Description

During our pipelined read_async feature fetch pipeline, it is possible that multiple async workers try to fetch at the same time. It is crucial to make it threadsafe to avoid catastrophic crashes and data races. Needed by #7559.

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